If you’re thinking about getting waxed—or already love the silky results—there are a few golden rules you’ll want to keep in mind. Waxing isn’t just about removing hair; it’s about taking care of your skin before and after so you get the smoothest, longest-lasting results possible.
Here’s your complete guide to waxing etiquette, broken down into simple do’s and don’ts you’ll thank yourself for following.
The Do’s of Waxing
Do Prep Your Skin Ahead of Time
Think of waxing like painting a canvas—the smoother the surface, the better the outcome. Exfoliate the day before your appointment (not the same day) to remove dead skin cells, and keep your skin moisturized in the days leading up to it. Just skip lotions and oils on wax day itself, since they can prevent the wax from sticking properly.
Do Let Your Hair Grow to the Right Length
For the wax to grab onto the hair, it should be about ¼ to ¾ inch long. Too short, and the wax won’t catch; too long, and it might hurt more. If your hair is on the longer side, a careful trim with clean scissors does the trick.
Do Choose a Clean, Professional Salon
Hygiene matters. A clean space with proper sanitary practices helps you avoid bacteria transfer or skin irritation.Don’t be shy about checking cleanliness before your appointment.
Do Communicate With Your Wax Specialist
If you’re on medications like Retin-A or isotretinoin, or have skin sensitivities, let your waxer know. These can thin the skin and make it more prone to irritation.
Do Keep Up With Regular Appointments
Consistency is key. The more often you wax, the more your hair follicles weaken—meaning thinner, sparser regrowthand less discomfort over time.
Do Know Your Body and Preferences
From a simple bikini line cleanup to a full Brazilian, waxing is all about choice. Decide what makes you feel most confident—whether that’s everything off, a strip, or a neat square.
Do Wear Cotton Underwear on Wax Day
It may not be the sexiest choice, but cotton is breathable and gentle on freshly waxed skin. Save the lace or tight jeans for another day.
Do Time Your Wax Before Events
For face or brows, book your appointment a few days before an event to let redness fade. For a bikini or Brazilian, give yourself at least 24–48 hours before intimacy or swimming to let follicles close and avoid irritation.
The Don’ts of Waxing
Don’t Tan Right Before or After Waxing
Waxing already exfoliates the top layer of skin. Pair that with tanning, and you’re just asking for extra sensitivity or even sunburn. Wait at least 24–48 hours.
Don’t Exfoliate or Moisturize on the Day Of
Exfoliating right before waxing makes skin too sensitive, and lotions or makeup block the wax from sticking. Keep it clean and product-free.
Don’t Shave Between Appointments
Shaving between sessions interrupts the cycle, can cause ingrown hairs, itching, and uneven regrowth. Trust the process—just wait for your next appointment.
Don’t Scratch or Touch Freshly Waxed Skin
It’s tempting if you feel a little itchy, but scratching introduces bacteria and can clog pores. Instead, soothe your skin with gentle aftercare products recommended for post-wax.
Don’t Hit the Gym, Sauna, or Hot Shower Right Away
Heat, sweat, and friction right after waxing can irritate freshly opened pores. Give yourself a couple of days before diving into intense workouts or steam rooms.
Final Takeaway
Waxing is one of the best ways to get smooth, long-lasting results—but like anything else, the results are only as good as the care you give your skin. Follow these simple do’s and don’ts, and you’ll enjoy less irritation, fewer ingrown hairs, and beautifully soft skin.
Ready to book your next wax? Just remember: prep, care, and consistency are everything.